So people have asked about my labor and delivery and I meant to post this sooner but it seems life is crazy and hectic. So here it is. So I was scheduled to be induced on the 22nd of Oct. However, as luck would have it I actually started having contractions starting at 2 AM on the 21st. The whole day the contractions came at about 8-10 minutes apart. Then about 5 PM they seemed to stop. So we eat dinner and walked to get a movie. We got home watched it. Right after out of no where it seemed my contractions came at 3-5 minutes apart. So at 1:15 we packed up and headed to the hospital. It seemed so surreal. I mean your pregnant for 9 months and you kind of dream about what it will be like but when it is really here it seems crazy.
Now some of you know that I was hoping to birth naturally with out an epidural. I actually read a hypnobirthing book and worked on techniques. With that said we got to the hospital and they checked me at I was dilated to a 3 and 80% effaced. So I was admitted. With that Ben went to get a couple of things out of the car. During the time he ran out to the car I had a couple of contractions that were pretty intense and so once he got back and the nurse came back in I said bring in the epidural! For not sleeping for so long I needed to sleep so I could make it through the actually labor and delivery. So I got my epidural and I must say it was wonderful. I got to sleep...that is as much as you can with a nurse coming in every hour and take your blood pressure and check to see how your progressing.
So by 4 I was dilated to a 4. At 5 I was dilated to a 5 and at 6 I was dilated to a 7. Then at this point they gave me pitocin (or however you spell it. Anyway, with that I think it was about 11 AM that I was fully dilated. However, due to the fact that my doctor was in another delivery we did not start pushing until about 12. Once the dr. came and noticed he had pooped inside me so he brought in the respiratory specialist just in case after Ethen was born he would be there. So I ended up pushing for 1 hour and 45 minutes. The dr. broke my water, however it did not help much as he said there was not much fluid. The dr. did not think it would do much as I also had a bulging sac (but he broke it at the nurses request). The reason why it took so long was not only did I have an epidural but because of his position. He was actually against my hip and so his head had to be moved and then he had to get under my pelvis. It felt like forever, and I was exhausted! During this time the dr. said the baby was big so we decided to guess how big he was. And the respiratory specialist was right now at 8 lbs. 5 ounces. He was officially born born at 1:43 PM. He was 21 1/2 inches long. Right after he was born the specialist took him while they worked on me. After they were done with Ethen Ben held Ben until I felt like I had enough strength to hold him. I must say he was so cute and what a precious moment to hold your first son and child. Also, while Ben held him I enjoyed what a precious moment it was to watch him hold Ethen.
Ben was great during labor and delivery! He thought he did not want to see the baby coming out and he did not think he'd want to cut the umbilical cord. However, the only thing he couldn't watch was me getting the epidural. He actually held my leg, watched the delivery and cut the umbilical cord. I am very grateful for my wonderful husband and his love and support through this whole time.
As for the name. Many of you know that we liked the name Lafayette. However, when he came out he did not look a Lafayette to us. So that night after my younger sister Jen and her husband Dax visted we set out to figure his name out. However, Ethen seemed to be his name. Hard to explain but that was it. So his full name is Ethen Scott Turner.
We stayed at the hospital until Sunday. Then we headed home.
Ben's mom was here first and she arrived shortly after we got home. I am so grateful that she came to stay with us as my mom could not come immediately. My mom did not come until Thursday. I am so grateful for both of them for all they did for us!
Well, this is enough for this post for now. I will post more later along with pictures. Also, if you have any questions just let me know.